#239: The Anxious Attachment Healing Roadmap
If you’ve ever struggled with anxious attachment, you probably know how exhausting it can feel. The constant overthinking, the hypervigilance around a partner’s behavior, the urge to fix things immediately when something feels off—it can feel like your nervous system is always on high alert. The truth is that healing anxious attachment is possible—but it helps enormously to understand what the path actually looks like. When you know where you’re going and why, the process becomes much more grounded and manageable. Here’s a clear roadmap for what that journey often involves.
If you’ve ever struggled with anxious attachment, you probably know how exhausting it can feel. The constant overthinking, the hypervigilance around a partner’s behavior, the urge to fix things immediately when something feels off—it can feel like your nervous system is always on high alert.
And if you’re someone who’s actively trying to heal these patterns, chances are lack of effort is not the problem. Most people with anxious attachment are already doing a lot of work: reading books, listening to podcasts, reflecting on past relationships, and trying to understand themselves more deeply.
But sometimes that effort can feel scattered or directionless. When you’re trying everything at once, it’s easy to end up feeling like you’re just treading water.
The truth is that healing anxious attachment is possible—but it helps enormously to understand what the path actually looks like. When you know where you’re going and why, the process becomes much more grounded and manageable.
Here’s a clear roadmap for what that journey often involves.
First: The Mindset You Bring to the Work Matters
Before we even talk about specific tools or strategies, it’s important to address the energy you’re bringing to the healing process.
Many people approach attachment healing from a place of shame. They think:
There’s something wrong with me.
I ruin my relationships.
I need to urgently fix myself.
But trying to heal from a place of self-criticism tends to backfire. If the core wound underneath anxious attachment already involves feelings of unworthiness or “not being enough,” piling more shame on top simply reinforces the problem.
A much healthier starting point is self-compassion and curiosity.
Your patterns didn’t appear out of nowhere. They developed for very good reasons—often as adaptations to early relational experiences where connection felt uncertain or inconsistent.
Approaching yourself with the mindset that “What I’m experiencing makes sense” creates a completely different foundation for change.
Self-compassion doesn’t mean avoiding responsibility. It simply means recognizing that your patterns are understandable—and that they can be changed with patience and care.
Pillar 1: Learning to Regulate Your Nervous System
The first major step in healing anxious attachment is learning how to regulate your nervous system.
Many anxiously attached people rely heavily on others to stabilize their emotional state. When something feels uncertain or threatening in a relationship, the instinct is often to reach outward for reassurance, clarity, or closeness.
In adulthood, however, healthy relationships require a balance: we want to be able to lean on each other without becoming completely dependent on another person for emotional regulation.
That’s why self-regulation is such an important skill.
What Self-Regulation Actually Means
Self-regulation is often misunderstood as simply “calming yourself down when you’re triggered.” While that’s part of it, the bigger picture is about expanding your capacity for emotional resilience.
It includes:
Increasing your tolerance for uncomfortable emotions
Reducing how easily you become triggered
Building a baseline sense of stability and safety within yourself
Think of it like building a larger emotional container. When your capacity grows, the same challenges that once felt overwhelming become much easier to handle.
Everyday Nervous System Care
Self-regulation isn’t only about emergency tools when things go wrong. It’s also about consistent daily practices that support your nervous system.
This doesn’t require elaborate routines or complicated techniques. Often it’s about simple acts of self-attunement, like:
Noticing when you’re feeling overwhelmed
Taking a short break and getting fresh air
Drinking water or stepping away from screens
Checking in with your body and slowing down your breathing
What matters most is the pattern of turning toward yourself and responding to your needs.
Over time, these small moments build a stronger internal foundation.
Pillar 2: Shifting Your Core Beliefs
The second major piece of healing anxious attachment involves addressing the core beliefs that shape how you see yourself and your relationships.
Many anxiously attached people carry deeply ingrained stories like:
I’m not worthy of love.
People always leave me.
I have to work hard to be chosen.
I can’t trust anyone.
These beliefs often operate below the surface, but they strongly influence our expectations and behaviors.
And here’s the tricky part: what we expect tends to shape what we accept.
If you believe people will eventually pull away, you may unconsciously tolerate relationship dynamics that reinforce that belief. Over time, this creates a loop where the same painful patterns keep repeating.
Collecting New Evidence
Changing these beliefs isn’t just about repeating affirmations in the mirror. For many people, that approach feels superficial.
Real change happens when you gather new lived experiences that challenge the old narrative.
This often means making different choices, such as:
Speaking up about your needs
Walking away from unhealthy dynamics
Prioritizing self-respect over approval
Investing energy in areas of life outside your relationship
Through these actions, you begin to accumulate evidence that supports a new story—one where you are worthy, capable, and resilient.
Building Self-Worth Outside the Relationship
A particularly powerful part of this process is cultivating self-worth outside of romantic relationships.
When all of your confidence is tied to how a partner feels about you, your emotional stability will always feel fragile.
But when you build a life that includes:
friendships
interests and passions
personal goals
meaningful work or creative pursuits
…your sense of identity becomes much more grounded.
Ironically, it’s often when we feel like we would survive and be okay even if a relationship ended that we’re finally able to show up in a more secure and balanced way within it.
Pillar 3: Developing Relationship Skills
The third piece of the puzzle involves practical relationship skills.
These include:
clear communication
identifying and expressing needs
setting boundaries
maintaining healthy standards in relationships
These skills are essential—but they work best after the first two pillars are in place.
A Common Pitfall
Many people start their healing journey here. They focus on questions like:
How do I say this without making my partner defensive?
What’s the right way to set a boundary?
How can I get my partner to open up more?
While these are valid concerns, communication strategies alone rarely solve anxious attachment patterns.
If the underlying fear of abandonment is still driving your behavior, boundaries and requests can easily collapse under pressure. A single negative response from your partner may trigger panic, leading you to backtrack or overcompensate.
That’s why the deeper work—regulation and self-worth—creates the stability needed to actually hold your boundaries and communicate with confidence.
Embodying Self-Respect
When you communicate from a grounded sense of self-respect, your words carry a very different energy.
Two people can say the exact same sentence, but if one person delivers it from a place of desperation and the other from a place of calm conviction, the impact will be completely different.
Real relationship skills aren’t just about saying the right thing—they’re about embodying the belief that your needs and wellbeing matter.
The Big Picture of Healing
Healing anxious attachment isn’t about becoming emotionally independent or never needing anyone again.
Healthy relationships involve vulnerability, interdependence, and support.
The goal is simply to shift from a place of fear and survival into a place of security, self-trust, and balance.
That process tends to follow a clear sequence:
Approach yourself with compassion instead of shame.
Build nervous system regulation and emotional resilience.
Challenge and reshape limiting core beliefs.
Develop communication skills and relational boundaries.
With time, patience, and consistent practice, the patterns that once felt automatic can begin to loosen.
And when that happens, relationships start to feel very different—not like something you’re constantly fighting to hold onto, but something you can participate in with far more ease, confidence, and trust.
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Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of On Attachment. In today's episode, we are talking about what it really takes to heal your anxious attachment pattern. So what are the steps involved? How do we approach it? Where do we begin? What does it really take? What's realistic in terms of what to expect? I really want to give you a clear roadmap of what that path looks like because something that I know from having taught and supported many, many people all over the world on this journey and having been through it myself is that, A, knowing it's possible and really believing that it's possible, and B, having a clear sense of where we're headed and why, that can be really resourcing and regulating in and of itself. Because I think so much of our fear and distress comes from feeling like we're just treading water and that we're frantically trying all of these things and nothing's working and maybe it's making it worse. So actually having a sense of what the path ahead looks like and where to focus our energy and effort, I think, is really, really grounding and can feel like it clarifies what we're doing, why we're doing it. And I think that that can be really encouraging because I think something that's fair to say about pretty much everyone who struggles with anxious attachment is lack of effort is not the problem. We tend to be very proactive in trying to understand ourselves, understand our relationship dynamics, understand our partner, figure out what to do, how to problem solve.
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All of that is really energy and time consuming. And so it's not about having to do more so much as making sure that the work we're already doing is being directed at where we're going to get the highest ROI, where it's going to be most effective. So I'm going to be talking about 3 sort of key pillars and the sequencing is really important as well. I'll I'll talk about some common pitfalls. I'll talk about some mindset pieces that can really set us up for success. And all of this is really a summary, I suppose, of what I teach much more comprehensively in Healing Anxious Attachment, which is my signature program. And that brings me to a quick announcement, but a very exciting one. Next week, on Monday the 16th of March, it will be 4 years since I first launched Healing Anxious Attachment, which is absolutely crazy for me to think about.
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But it has been 4 years, almost 4,000 students have gone through the program. And to celebrate the milestone, I'm going to be running a 4th anniversary or 4th birthday sale for 24 hours only. And you will be able to sign up to the course for its original price of just $222. So that is a very steep discount on what the course usually costs. It's more than 50% off and it is just a little gift or an offering to mark the occasion and for anyone who has maybe dipped their toe into my work, maybe you've explored some free resources, maybe you've been curious about diving deeper into the work, but it hasn't been the right time or cost has been a consideration. Now is a really, really good time to jump in and take advantage of this sale. It will only run for 24 hours next Monday, the 16th of March, and it's only going to be released to people who are on the waitlist. So if you're interested, please scroll down to the link in the show notes and the episode description or in the YouTube comments if you're watching on YouTube.
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YouTube and put your name on the waitlist because you will not be able to access the sale unless you're on that waitlist, as those are the only people I'm going to be emailing about it next week when the sale goes live. So I would absolutely love to have you in the program. I know we all get a bit tired of marketing speak online, but it is no exaggeration to say that I've had more people than I could count tell me that this programme has changed their life, and I feel very, very humbled and honoured to be able to say that. So if you would like to learn more, and put your name down on that list. I will link it in the show notes. Okay. So let's get into this conversation around what it really takes to heal our anxious attachment patterns. And for anyone who's maybe new or newish, a bit of context.
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I used to really struggle with anxious attachment. I think it laid dormant for quite a few years and then a particularly challenging relationship really brought everything to the surface with gusto. And I, I, at the time, didn't know what anxious attachment was until I happened upon it and suddenly everything clicked into place. That didn't immediately relieve what I was struggling with, but it did start to shine a light on what I was experiencing and why. And I've done a lot of work since then to understand myself more deeply, to figure out what was mine to own, to build deep self-worth and self-trust, and to learn to really stand on my own two feet so that I didn't have to rely so heavily on hypervigilance and control. And manipulation and all of the other tactics that can be sort of shadowy expressions of the fear that we feel when we're in our anxious attachment. So the first really important piece, and this is kind of a precursor step to the actual what to do, is that we need to approach it in the right way. I've done episodes about this before that I can also link in the show notes.
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But if we are approaching ourselves from the energy of feeling like there's something wrong with us, feeling like there's some deficit, feeling like we're broken, telling ourselves that we're the problem and we and everything. Basically, from a place of shame, anything that we try will not work. Shame is not going to be the soil that allows our seeds of self-worth to grow and prosper. And I think that when we zoom out from it, that becomes very obvious. If shame is at the heart of so many of our patterns, that shame and unworthiness, the sense of I am not lovable, I am not good enough, I have to work so hard to get someone to choose me and to keep them from leaving me, that is a very shamey story. And so if trying to shift that by applying more shame, we're actually just reinforcing the wound at the heart of it all. So approaching ourselves instead from the starting assumption that everything we're experiencing makes sense, and it does, it always does. I've never heard someone's storey and not been able to say, well, yeah, that makes sense.
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Of course, of course that feels scary. Of course you struggle with that. Of course you react in that way when you're feeling so out of control. Now, that's not to give ourselves some sort of free pass to just behave however we want. Self-compassion doesn't mean a lack of self-responsibility. It's simply an acknowledgement of our humanity and that these patterns don't arise out of nowhere. We all come by our attachment patterns honestly, and almost all of these things were set in place really early on before we had any say in the matter. So, starting from this place of the things I'm struggling with make sense.
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They are a natural response to very real fears. I'm experiencing. My job is not to judge myself for that or make myself wrong for it, but rather to get curious about what I might need, what's going on for me, and how I can best support myself. When we are able to open up some space with that kind of approach, it creates a totally different canvas upon which to do the subsequent work of healing. And even the difference in how it feels to talk about, I have to urgently fix myself because I ruin everything, and How can I support myself to feel more safe and worthy in my relationships? If you do the exact same things on top of each of those foundations, they're going to have very, very different results. So getting really clear and intentional about the mindset and the way that you're approaching this work so that it doesn't become this endless project that's actually underpinned by a fundamental belief of your own inadequacy. Now, the first kind of substantive puzzle piece or building block in terms of the work of healing anxious attachment is really understanding your nervous system and learning to self-regulate. We talk a lot about self-soothing for anxious attachment.
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And just to contextualise why that's important, most people with anxious attachment patterns really struggle to self-regulate, meaning to be able to hold our centre when we're experiencing big emotions, when we get triggered. We tend to have centre of gravity outside of us. And because of that, we really rely on other people almost in the same way that a child would rely on a parent to soothe us when we're upset. And when I say that, some anxiously attached people are like, but isn't that normal? If I'm really upset, my partner has to make me feel better. And it's actually not what we want to shoot for in our adult relationships. We want to have a sense of, yes, I can bring things to you. I can be vulnerable in front of you, but I'm not kind of clutching at you with this energy of a frightened, distressed child that creates dynamics that are really asymmetrical rather than feeling healthy, balanced between two self-responsible but also interdependent adults. So learning to self-regulate is not just about how can I talk myself off the ledge when I'm triggered.
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And I think a lot of people have quite a narrow view of what's involved in self-regulation. It's just like, the emergency response approach to feeling triggered. And that's absolutely part of it, and we want to be able to do that. We want to be able to ground ourselves really deliberately and have lots of tools at our disposal. But I think of it as much broader than that. It's actually the broader work of building capacity so that we're not triggered all the time, so we're not triggered so easily, so that our baseline is not one of dysregulation and hyperactivation and reactivity. Because when we have a lot of distress and we have a low tolerance or a narrow window of tolerance, we're going to get triggered very easily. And so we're going to have to be resorting to those emergency response tools all the time.
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The bigger piece here is, can I build the container and then be really deliberate about filling that container up? You might have heard me use that analogy before. Can I build my capacity so that, you know, the little things maybe don't rattle me so much, that I feel more resilient, that I can kind of let things go more easily rather than feeling like anything and everything has the ability to knock me off center, and then I don't know how to get myself back. When we move through the world in that way, no wonder we feel so vulnerable and wanting to control everything because we feel like the world is out to get us and other people have so much power over our internal state. And so, So being able to actually build up that capacity so that we're not so easily dysregulated. And then nourishing ourselves. This is again, I think, an often neglected or overlooked piece of the conversation around our nervous system is actually just pouring into ourselves every day and having practises that are kind of pro nervous system wellbeing that just become part of your normal. Again, it's not about, oh no, I'm triggered. What breathwork can I do to bring myself back to center? So that I don't sabotage my relationship.
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I think that that's again almost like treating ourselves as a problem that needs solving and we just have to have the hack so that we don't ruin everything. I think showing up for ourselves from this place of devotion and self-honoring and I am worthy of care and well-being and how can I prioritise showing up for myself in that way every single day. And again, this is not to say that you have to have some elaborate morning routine. It's not to I don't say that you have to take up journaling and meditation and breathwork and all of the things. I think that that's like an unhelpful trope that many of us have internalised from social media and elsewhere. It's really just about being present with yourself and attuning to yourself and noticing how you're feeling and then making micro adjustments in the direction of more presence, more spaciousness, more ease, more pleasure, more joy. And that might be as simple as Realizing that you are kind of bouncing all over the place in your attention and you're sitting at your computer and you haven't had a glass of water. And so closing all of your tabs and standing up from your desk and getting a glass of water and going and standing outside for 2 minutes.
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That is so beautiful and nourishing. And actually, I think it's oftentimes less about the thing we do and more about the fact that we're turning towards ourselves, tuning in, and then responding to what we need. That is a really, really powerful practice. And so when we bring bringing all of that together, both the self-soothing when we are dysregulated, when something goes wrong, so that we can build up our tolerance for discomfort and distress and feel less dependent from this really clingy, desperate place on a partner to make us feel better. But also those broader pieces around nervous system health and well-being that really allows us to stand on our own two feet and to change our baseline state so that we don't feel like we're always kind of drown in treading water and needing someone to rescue us. The second really big piece when it comes to healing our anxious attachment patterns is understanding, getting curious about, and ultimately shifting some of our negative core beliefs. So our negative core beliefs or core wounds are essentially these deep storeys or imprints that we've probably carried for a really long time, sometimes conscious, sometimes not so conscious, but things like I'm unworthy of love, or nobody ever fully chooses me, or people always leave me, or nobody can be trusted. You know, these storeys that feel so true and that oftentimes we've collected a lot of evidence for and that really shape how we move through the world and through our relationships.
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And something that I talk about a lot is that what we expect shapes what we accept or what we tolerate, what we view as being normal. And so if our baseline expectation is that people can't be trusted, that people always pull away, that we have to work really hard to prove our worth and to be loved, then we're going to persist in relationships where that is proven true time and time again because we don't register that as being a problem. We just register that as being the reality we've always known. And so we have to really audit these core beliefs, get a bit curious about where they come from and what the impact is that they have on our emotional state, on our behaviors, and on our relationship patterns more broadly. And then experiment with, well, is this storey really mine? Is this something that I want to carry? And what might it be like to actually consider an alternative belief like, I am worthy and deserving of love, care, and support. And, you know, I want to acknowledge that for a lot of us, even just as a thought exercise, it can feel a bit disingenuous and that just proclaiming our affirmations in front of the mirror feels a bit shallow or underwhelming when we deeply believe in the old story, the thing that says we're not worthy, the thing that says we're not enough. And I really get that, and I've struggled with that myself. I'm not someone for whom kind of cheesy affirmations really do much.
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But I also think a really key piece in this whole idea of building deep self-worth and overhauling some of those old storeys that aren't serving us anymore is actually allowing ourselves to collect new evidence. So rather than it just being something that we tell ourselves, allowing us to experience this new thing as true. And our nervous system really learns through the process of collecting new evidence rather than just hearing a storey that doesn't accord with everything we've always known to be true about ourselves and others. And so a really big part of building self-worth is actually in the doing. It's in making self-respecting, self-honoring choices and getting really clear about the things that we might be doing and participating in that are reinforcing the old stories. Because for as long as we are continuing to accrue evidence that says, no, 'Look, really, people do always leave me,' or 'I always push people away,' or 'It's not safe for me to have a voice or to express needs.' If we keep playing that out, then there's no way that we can realistically expect ourselves to shift to a new storey because the old storey continues to be proven true. So there may be things that we need to adjust in terms of our relationships and kind of outer world stuff, the external, rather than just trying to mindset our way through that internal process of belief reprogramming. And that is where we have to get really discerning around the ways in which we might actually be contributing to the perpetuation of a status quo that we actually claim not to want anymore.
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And there's a big self-responsibility piece there. But focusing on building self-worth, building self-respect, and doing those things, I often say, such a big part of the work for anxiously attached people is building self-worth. But doing it outside of your relationship is oftentimes more powerful and effective than trying to build self-worth in the context of your relationship. Because I think it's too tempting when we're doing it within our relationship to be doing it from this place of trying to build up my confidence so that you find me more attractive, or so that you want me more, or so that you stop pulling away. And it's still about them. And And it's still about getting their validation and their approval and their attention and their affection, which means it's not really true authentic self-worth. Um, try to become someone that you really like and respect and do it from a place of really gifting that to yourself because that's how you want to move through the world, not trying to build up your self-esteem so that your partner behaves differently or so that you're more attractive to them, because I think that that is ultimately still part of a control pattern that we want to shift away from. And one of the great ironies, I think, about all of this is that it's only when we feel like we would be okay if our relationship were to end that we can start showing up in a more balanced and secure way to that relationship.
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And that's not to say that we have to be indifferent, or that we have to not care, or that we wouldn't be sad. But when we approach our relationships from this place of of, I'll die without you, I'll never be okay, I'll fall apart, we're always going to be putting them on a pedestal and kind of begging them to choose us and never leave us. And that's just not a healthy or helpful energy to be approaching our relationships with. Okay. The third big piece here in this process of healing and shifting anxious attachment patterns is all of our skill-based stuff. So things like healthy communication, like identifying and like voicing needs, like setting and upholding boundaries. These are the things that we want to kind of build the muscle of. And again, it takes practice.
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It's not just about saying the right words, it's actually about embodying the words and being so committed to your own standards that you're setting for your relationships that you're not willing to tolerate less than what you truly need and desire. And that's not about becoming rigid or demanding, it's actually just deciding this is what I know supports my well-being and supports me to feel safe and loved and at ease and cared for. And so I'm actually not interested in being part of a relationship where these things are fundamentally lacking and I'm instead feeling insecure and anxious and unsure all of the time, or most of the time. And something that's really important to note here is is that a lot of people start here. Uh, and I think that that can be a bit of a pitfall when we start with, what do I say in order to get them to open up? Or how can I express my needs without them becoming defensive? Or how can I set a boundary so that they stop doing this thing? And while all of that is very well-intentioned, the truth is when we're doing those things without having done the previous steps, so when we haven't really worked on creating that sense of safety from within through our nervous system, work, when we haven't built up our self-worth and our self-esteem and our self-respect and rewired some of those negative core beliefs, you know, that fear of abandonment and rejection and the unworthiness, when all of those pieces are kind of sitting there and then we just come in with, how do I set the boundary? Oftentimes it comes out as all bark and no bite. We have this really puffed up declaration and we've rehearsed it and we say the thing. And then if we're met get with any pushback, or if they respond in a way that we hadn't anticipated or wasn't what we were hoping for, we quickly panic and we backpedal and we apologise and we beg and we plead and we just try and undo it all. Because again, we feel like we need them in order to be okay.
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So if you say, this is a non-negotiable thing for me, and your partner says, well, maybe it's all too hard, and then you panic, that's not really achieving its purpose. And you will, when pushed, default to doing whatever you need to do to preserve the connection, even if it's to the detriment of your well-being. So that's why it's not that it's wrong or bad to work on your communication skills. I think that's beautiful and important work, but I do think that it ideally sits atop a foundation of those deeper pieces, particularly again for anxiously attached people, because those deeper pieces is so powerful and they do lead us to feel so vulnerable in relationships and so overly reliant on the other person. So it's only when we build that up so that we're not coming to relationships from this place of fear and deficit and scarcity that we can actually communicate on a level footing as two adults rather than protesting, rather than pleading, rather than acting out in all of the ways that we can reach for when we're in that place of fear and anxiety. I think that that's what really ultimately allows allows us to communicate in a more grounded and self-honoring way, which funnily enough tends to be much better received by the other person. Because I do think that two people could say the exact same words, and the person who's delivering them from this really sturdy place of self-respect, that lands completely differently. And the other person will feel that, and you will feel that.
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Most importantly, you will know that I'm actually I'm going to be so steadfastly committed to doing what's right for me that the way you respond isn't going to change that necessarily. And again, it's not about rigidity or enforcing your rules and declarations, but it's actually just around that like fierce devotion and commitment to your own well-being. And that's something that most anxiously attached people really struggle with. And that's really important work. Okay, this is getting long, so I'm going to stop blabbering away because God knows I could talk about this for much longer, but I won't. As I said at the start, guys, everything that I've talked about today, if this approach is resonating with you, if it sounds like, yes, this is exactly what I need, please consider joining the waitlist for the birthday sale for Healing Anxious Attachment next week on the 16th of March. I would absolutely love for you to experience The course that has helped almost 4,000 other people all over the world to shift these patterns, to give you the roadmap, to give you a clear sense of the structure and the sequence and the what to do and the what not to do, and to really hold you through that process. So if you're struggling with anxious attachment and you really know that you need some more support, I would love to provide that for you and make sure that you join join the waitlist.
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Okay, I'm gonna leave it there. Thank you so much for tuning in as always. Thank you to those who leave comments and reviews. I read them all and I'm eternally grateful for your ongoing support. I look forward to seeing you again next time.
Keywords from Podcast Episode
healing anxious attachment, anxious attachment pattern, self-regulation, self-soothing, nervous system, self-worth, self-trust, relationship dynamics, negative core beliefs, attachment styles, mindset, shame, self-compassion, self-responsibility, capacity building, emotional triggers, self-honouring, self-respect, boundaries, healthy communication, setting boundaries, voicing needs, belief reprogramming, core wounds, self-esteem, vulnerability, control patterns, breaking patterns, interdependence, personal growth
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